Love & War

It is said that all is fair in love and war, and that no matter what your intentions, your strategy of interception and attack must always be for the sake of victory for either side. But nobody wins a war with no goals, or takes up arms in a battle without a great purpose in mind. And so the same rules apply in any relationship, which should be discouraged if they have no clear direction for growth in mind. Because if its engaging in a battle, and yes...love is a battle, against all odds...without goals, the only two factions in that war are the two people in love.

Without knowing what they're fighting for, soldiers will lose their morale, until eventually they lose faith and are faced with either defecting or retreating. When two allies meet amidst a war, the strength of their front does not lie in their power, or in their wisdom or even the magnitude of their honour, no matter how dignified, but rather in their diplomacy, in their union and their trust. And without their rules of engagement in a war against time. And no matter how dire their circumstance, or how advantages their position in life, they must never become the casualties of a war against their own tides.

As is in war so the rules must apply when engaging in love. That without borders, barricades and boundaries, the rules will always be broken unless the laws are laid out on a solid line. And whether for the best of intentions, or for morals far from kind, as in war the rules of engagement, in love, must be clearly defined. Yes all is fair in love and war, but remember which treaty you signed, make clear the terms of your allegiance, against your enemies, and with clear goals in mind.

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