Sometimes love is not just about the next person, and sometimes its not about communication at all...No, sometimes love is just about respect and about sincerity...Sometimes about just standing there, guards down, chin up and open for all to see. How can one be expected to love, and to be loved, when you can't even see all that is there to love? Because unlike fashion, love never changes, and has no collection to bind it in. Its not like the clothing we can simply mix and match...No, its simply like the bare, beautiful skin.
So many people talk of being open, and being transparent, but you can only be as clear as you perceive yourself to be. And in the end, when you're hiding truths about yourself from yourself, then you can never be truly honest with anyone. And in truth, you want someone to love you, for all of you, including the parts you dislike about yourself, the hurts you try to hide, and the regrets you deny you ever had...And those blemishes are the kinds you'll only find when you're truly honest and naked from your 'truths'.
All that's expected in any relationship, is bare honesty. And even though we may feel completely naked under the scrutiny of complete honesty, often its easier to find love without layers of lies. Because in the end, once all the bad and the brutal honesty is out in the open, all you have left are the good truths to live by. Because under all the layers of verisimilitude, we find that the naked truth is worth a lot more to love.
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