Border Patrol

I have always understood one fundamental thing, both in life and in love, that there is a clear and distinct line that separates that which is right from that which is wrong, like oil and water or black and white. But although the divide is as clear as glass, how is it that some people still knowingly choose what is contrary to their moral beliefs? And the answer begins with you...

I was asked a question, about absence in a relationship, and about the causes of unfaithfulness and infidelity. The cause will always be the same...Its not distance or neglect, or taunting or differences, its a lack of communication and border patrol. Morals and the sentiment attached to them have always been the foundations of a society's conscience, but border patrol and law and order or the things that hold it in place. Nobody will know to choose right from wrong, until they know the implications involved in choosing the latter, or what it would mean to the affected person/s, and even more so, how much choosing the right thing please the person/s who benefit.

You see, the only time someone begins to question whether or not they can choose wrong from right, is when they are tolerated the options, and when there are no clear boundaries separating the two. There is no excuse for infidelity or unfaithfulness, but its not infidelity if nobody says its so...

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