Something I've learned in Life and especially through being in a relationship, is that somehow in all the instant messaging and telecommunications, society has somehow handicapped itself from its general ability to communicate sensibly, passionately, and overall effectively. And one has to wonder how a species so far up the chain of evolution, has evolved into a state where its grown incapable of communicating and processing information through the basic channel of person to person conversation.
And to make it worse, its no surprise that in these times we find couples celebrating month to month anniversaries, instead of celebrating the annual tradition, simply because its considered a triumph when a couple makes it passed a single month! But the truth is, relationships cannot last without the basic concept of communication, so why then do we act so surprised when they fail to last?
So here's the absolute truth...Couples will often say that they communicate...But really, do they? Whoever said you listen, feel and communicate with you ears, hands and mouth? You 'hear' with your ears, but listen with your heart. You touch with your hands, but feel with your heart. You speak with your mouth, but communicate with your heart...In all things, especially relationships, wisdom and understanding begins with communication...So open your heart and listen to life, feel your passion and communicate in love.
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And to make it worse, its no surprise that in these times we find couples celebrating month to month anniversaries, instead of celebrating the annual tradition, simply because its considered a triumph when a couple makes it passed a single month! But the truth is, relationships cannot last without the basic concept of communication, so why then do we act so surprised when they fail to last?
So here's the absolute truth...Couples will often say that they communicate...But really, do they? Whoever said you listen, feel and communicate with you ears, hands and mouth? You 'hear' with your ears, but listen with your heart. You touch with your hands, but feel with your heart. You speak with your mouth, but communicate with your heart...In all things, especially relationships, wisdom and understanding begins with communication...So open your heart and listen to life, feel your passion and communicate in love.
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Communication is key to any relationship. Without it, the bond that is established will faulter soon enough.
ReplyDeleteSo true Anonymous...As communication solidifies the bridge that connects one partner to another, then the builders of that bridge must learn to use the correct tools to build a solid bridge from one lover to another...
ReplyDeleteJ
It is said that abstence makes the heart grow fonder. Yet in todays fast paced life, time spent apart from your lover leads one partner to stray, thus leaving the bridge unattended and then in complete ruins.
ReplyDeleteWhat advice would you advise me on this matter?
Dashing
In a case of 'wandering' or 'infidelity', there is no bridge strong enough to support the moral implications of breaking another dynamic in a relationship, and that is Trust.The only bridge that can then be solidified, must be built on Love and Understanding. If the relationship is built on Love, then Communication and Trust will follow. But patience, like a muscle, must be exercised too...Hope that helps
ReplyDeleteJ
OMW!!! Oh so true my dear, talented friend....
ReplyDeleteMWAH
Lotsa love Chantel Brown :-)